30 Seconds Of Charisma, Do You Know?

When you first meet, you always leave time to speak to each other! No one likes to talk loudly. Psychosocial research finds that 27% of unsuccessful blind dates come from one person with many words and the other without speaking.

Situation! In life, people with opposite personality can be lovers, girlfriends, or blue confidante, but for the first time, they are not familiar with each other. Everything should start from scratch and abide by the principle of absolute fairness.

It is recommended that you leave the conversation as much as possible.

Let people feel your thoughtfulness and equality.

Through short dialogues, we can find the "intersection" with each other, so that we can deepen our contacts.

But if the person you encounter is quite different from your experience and the opposite way of thinking is, you should repeat the other side's views appropriately so as to show that you are in the same position with him.

For example, when he talks about currency wars you don't understand, you can conclude his remarks at the end. "So what you mean is: this financial tsunami will bring the euro down," so that the other side will have a self.

You feel better!

Since you are meeting for the first time, do not reveal too many personal details to your partner! Your family will feel that you are an emotional dependent person. If you encounter a bad feeling in the future, you will find him in a big way. Under such negative psychological defense, few people are willing to engage with you deeply.

On the contrary, when you meet for the first time, you can only leave a mysterious feeling to the other person if you only tell yourself something about yourself, and expect to see you next time.

If you have a dark complexion, do not apply thick white powder to your face; if your teeth are not uniform, do not pretend to have a toothless smile.

Everyone likes to meet people who are real and casual. If you first reveal yourself to the other person at the first meeting, it will make him feel relaxed. It's the same reason that when you make a slip of tongue when you speak, you should also correct yourself in time, so that you can leave a good impression of modesty and politeness.

With too many gestures and too many oral words, you are hesitant and hesitant.

So you'd rather slow down and remove such words as "this" and "that".

Take a closer look at the Oscar prize giving ceremony. When a star comes to power, he will say a bunch of unknown words.

Casual gestures can reveal your inner feelings. For example, when your left hand accidentally brushs your lips, if the other person is proficient in psychology, you will immediately feel that you have just said a big word or are lying.

It is recommended that you try to reduce your gestures while you speak, but don't keep your hands tightly closed. This will reveal your inner tension.

If you can't put your hands on your legs or tables easily, you can take a stuffed toy with you. It can relieve your mental stress effectively.